what do you say about chapter 19? almost feels like matthew is in a boxing match and throwing us a few consecutive punches.
let’s start with divorse… two very unpopular teachings… both then and now.
vs9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.
dang. so you mean this is for life? and this is the only way divorce is acceptable to God? not a popular message – or even one that is taught very much.
vs10-12 The disciples said to Him, "If the relationship of the man with his wife is like this, it is better not to marry."
But He said to them, "Not all men can accept this statement, but only those to whom it has been given.
… there are also eunuchs who made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. He who is able to accept this, let him accept it."
oddly enough, i don’t really hear people asking others… “so, have you decided to be celibate for the Lord?” i generally hear things like, “have you found a girl yet?” or “so when are you two getting married?” why do we not teach that marriage (although a wonderful blessing) is hard? why do we not teach people that an option is to be married to the Lord? why do we think someone just hasn’t found “the one” if they are still single?
side note: when i read this verse a few years ago it struck me… vs6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate. …man and woman become one flesh at marriage but we really become one flesh when we come together and make one flesh. just a thought.
vs14 But Jesus said, "Let the children alone, and do not hinder them from coming to Me; for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these."
ahh, the blessed little children. i’m still working on being childish in the right ways. it’s pretty cool having kids and looking at the things they do and think of all the ways that God wants me to become like a little child.
vs21 Jesus said to him, "If you wish to be complete, go and sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me."
was Jesus for real? most sermons/lessons i’ve heard on this topic seems to say that he was being serious with the RYR but it’s only meant to be figurative to us today. really?!? it seems to fit us pretty well. we are the richest people in the history of the world. we have comforts that generations before us would have never thought were possible… and most of the world is only able to dream of.
i wonder, how many would turn away sad if when they came forward to give their life to the Lord we said, “great, now go sell all that you own and give it to the poor.” i wonder how fast churches would grow with that strategy? i wonder if I’ve done it?
vs29 And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or farms for My name's sake, will receive many times as much, and will inherit eternal life.